Dear Women,
8th March is Women’s Day. May we all women come in our full feminine splendor and are able to maintain the balance between our sensitive, affectionate side and our powerful, progressive side. This unique combination of mental wiring is a blessing bestowed only upon women.
I watched a new Netflix series which is a murder mystery based on true events. I am not going to mention the name, but the main character is a woman who killed her own child. She surpassed all feminine qualities like sensitivity, sweetness, empathy, affection, nurturing, and tenderness, and used every relationship only to enhance her grandeur and climb the professional ladder. Anything that was a barrier to this was discarded.
Outside, we see a confident fashionista, a high corporate woman, but the inside story is that this woman is not at all comfortable and at peace with herself. She is not fulfilling her human need of loving, validating, supporting, and honoring herself. The inside love tank is fully empty and dry, so there is a lot of restlessness and starvation.
In this traumatic mental state of self-disconnection, the mind has created a survival mechanism of narcissistic actions. The mind is showing her that the more she increases her grandeur, the more she will receive a supply of attention, appreciation, and desire. This is the only way out in front of her for survival in this inner starving state, and now all are her supply. Her inner mental navigation has got contaminated.
So, what love, appreciation, and attention she is not able to give herself is taken from others by every means, and every barrier in that is a cause of extreme fear, insecurity, and anxiety.
To get supply, her mental vibration is even guiding her towards criminal actions without any sensitivity or remorse.
This is a sad situation. Everyone will suffer with her, but she herself is lost in darkness, not knowing any way out and really needs help. I have seen other similar cases in my work.
Professional independence and a good financial graph are important to live a comfortable life in this physical world. It is very important for a woman to live a respectable life in society because for years she has been abused and exploited for this.
Dear woman, you can be professionally strong and keep your sensitivity, sweetness, affection, and nurturing nature alive. Both can be done easily. You are blessed with both qualities, and maintaining this balance is a true joy for women. Every man needs this nurturing woman. They can fight and win with the world if they have the support of such a woman in their life. Every family will break if you do not rise in your feminine self.
No need to run like others and become so harsh, competitive, and lifeless. Be kind to yourself. Sit with yourself. Show love to yourself through simple things. Be supportive of yourself and your life, wherever you are. With this calmness and self-love, climb your professional ladder, nurture happy families and contribute in making happy society.
If you find this difficult, then seek professional help and do self-work. It gives transformative results. Many women have received huge benefits from this and are living the life they truly want. You can also choose this joy for yourself.
Decorate your life with flowers of abundance and love. This is your beauty, where the whole world bows down in front of you. Let us rise in our feminine selves and reflect this inner beauty in our outside life.
Sending much love
Acharrya Smredhi
Mental wellness practitioner and lifecoach
www.peacefulme.in
