When we take God only as someone who can give protection or fulfill our wishes then we limit our connection and the time which which we spend with him. He only remains as someone outside who helps at the time of need.
But
When we truly love God to our core then the approach will become different.
Now the relationship is unlimited and boundless and it is not only for a purpose, reason or for some time in a day. This Love or connection with the source makes you full and whole.
Love gives wings to your relationship with the whole existence. Now the presence is 24x 7 – whether you do anything or not. There is no counting and there is no procedure.
Whether you are with your friends or in a movie or a temple or having lunch or working or sleeping.
Relationship is not based on fear but love. You feel your breath is connected to your source and your source’s breath is connected to you. You feel that oneness – Same essence. Here we see that divinity in ourselves and witness it expressing through us.
As much as we suppress or judge or self beat ourselves that much we will will not let God to express through us as we close the channel in doubt.
As much we will search him we will promote seperation. He is there and we are the same essence. Just feel it.
Loving yourself, your essence, your expression, your connection and whole of you is Self Love.
May be Meera, Kabir, Nanak all felt this oneness because love breaks boundaries and they all broke it.
When I searched God I found myself,
When I searched myself I found God – RUMY
Hope these words which are expressed through me reaches to the one who needs them.