It is impossible that a person does not go through sorrows but only goes through joys. The stream of life has every colour – joy, sorrow, success, pain, humilation, love, failure, highs and shattering experiences. We all have to go through all the chapters of Life. This also is impossible that you don’t feel sad in pain. We all have 9 rasas. We go through all the emotions.
The only difference between extra ordinary and ordinary being is that extra ordinary person will come back in his OKness very fast and move on in his life whereas, ordinary person will stretch and hold every experience in life to the maximum.