I am writing these attachment patterns to give the awareness that working here can solve your self and relationships issues beautifully.
Insecure attachment pattern is a result of ‘Should be’s and Must be’s. Trying to control outside as per our choice. The roots of this is in our childhood.
Before getting married please check your pattern and your partners pattern. Anxious and avoidant need to take the aware decision of being away from each other and settling down with secure partners.
Looks, education and finances all take back seat if patterns are not favourable.
If you are already married then also, working in this area will heal you and your relationship. If your partner is not ready to work on himself then also you work on yourself. You heal yourself and atleast 50℅ relationship will be taken care of.
More than partnership this can help you to live happy and fulfilling life. This heals SWADHISHTHAN CHAKRA. This is deep healing and allows love and peace in our life.
Hope this helps.