Disorganized attachment pattern is a confused state of mind in which they are pushing their partner away and pulling him towards him at the same time. They have mixed behaviour. They have characteristicks of both anxious and avoidant attachment pattern. They feel deep need for love but deprive themselves from love because of trust issues and fear of rejection.
Secured attachment pattern is a clear and confident state of mind. In this person can give love and accept love with ease. They trust and develop best quality relationships. They are open and honest about their feelings and are same with the other. They feel secure and give the same feeling to their partner. They can be best partner not only for secure attachment but they calm down insecure attachment people also.
Insecure attachment pattern is not any disease but creates lot of pain for the person. This pattern develops by early years experience and can be handled by working on self consistently. This is worth doing, as it opens the door of lot of joy and peace.
Hope this helps.
